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The purpose of the Funeral Liturgy to offer worship and thanksgiving to God, the author of all life; to pray for the deceased, and to offer support to the bereaved.
The Church encourages us to celebrate a funeral
The Funeral Service, which may be a Mass or a Service outside Mass.
The Committal at the cemetery or crematorium.
The Funeral Service
This is the Church’s main time of prayer for the deceased person. The Funeral Service usually takes the form of the celebration of Mass, the highest form of prayer n which the Sacrifice of Christ himself is made present. In offering this Sacrifice, we commend to God the soul of the deceased in union with Christ himself. Alternatively the Funeral Service may take place outside Mass, with most of the same prayers, rites and Scriptures, but without the Eucharistic Prayer and Holy Communion.
The Funeral Service normally takes place in a parish church but it may sometimes be appropriate to hold it in the chapel of a cemetery or crematorium.
1. I would like my funeral liturgy to take place at
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I would like my funeral service to be:
A requiem Mass
or
A Service outside Mass
(i.e. a service of readings and prayers only)
2. Scripture passages I would like at my funeral:
The full selection of scripture readings approved for use at funerals can be found at www.rcdow.org.uk/liturgy
FirstReading …......................................................
Psalm ...............................................................
Gospel ...............................................................
NB Sometimes the readings used at a funeral are specific to a liturgical season. In such a case the priest will give the fullest respect to your wishes that he can.
3. Hymns I would like at my funeral are:
Please note that music in the Funeral Service should be religious: secular songs and music should be used at the committal or reception. You will find a list of suitable hymns in your parish hymn book.
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4. Words of Remembrance and Farewell:
You may wish someone to speak at the Funeral Service, though this is not obligatory.
Yes No Pleasetick
5. Flowers:
My preferences for flowers are:
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6. Donations/collection
I would like a collection to be taken for:
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or
I would not like a collection to be taken.
C: The Committal
The final act of saying farewell takes place in a brief service at the graveside or at the crematorium. When a body is cremated it is encouraged that there also be a further brief service, sometime later, for the burial of the ashes.
I wish to be buried.
If so, I wish to be buried at:
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(If you already own a grave, please attach the necessary paperwork to this document)
or oI wish to be cremated.
If so, I wish my ashes to be interred at:
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7. Reception after the funeral
I would like the reception to take place at:
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8. Funeral Directors
I have a pre-paid funeral plan with:
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Address ………………………...……………………
Telephone ……………………………………...………
or
I would like
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Address ………………………...……………………
Telephone ……………………………………...………
to be used as my undertakers.
or
I leave the choice of undertakers
to my next-of-kin.
9. My Will
My will is lodged with my solicitor:
Name …………...…………………………………
Address ………………………...……………………
Telephone ……………………………………...………
10. My next of kin is
Name …………...…………………………………
Address ………………………...……………………
Telephone ……………………………………...………
12. Power of attorney (if applicable)
Power of attorney has been granted to
Name …………...…………………………………
Address ………………………...……………………
Telephone ……………………………………...………
Signed by me................................................................
Please print name _________________________
Signature ……………………………………………...
Date ..……………………………………………..
Please keep this form with your papers at home, and a copy with:
(1) your will at your solicitors,
(2) your parish priest,
(3) your next of kin and
(4) (if you have
a prepaid funeral plan) with your nominated funeral director.
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